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Hijab is Not to Protect Men, But to Honor Women

Posted on: May 3, 2012

In The name of Allah,The Most Merciful,The Most gracious

Hijab is Not to Protect Men, But to Honor Women

As we know, Islam provides a few guidelines on dress code for both men and women. They are designed to promote modesty while still allowing a functioning and healthy society. I’ve heard and read a number of stories and have observed the attitudes of many brothers:

that Islamic guidelines for women’s clothing and modesty exist largely for the purpose of protecting men from fitnah (trial, spiritual test, calamity).

If a Muslim woman does not dress in a way they deem appropriate in their vicinity, some people will denigrate them for dressing or acting un-Islamically and being a fitnah for them. Some of these comments highlight an understanding that is divorced from healthy Islamic principles:

“Oh man, these girls are a fitnah!”

“If a guy looks at you more than once, you aren’t covering properly.”

“If a guy likes you, then you are a fitnah in the community.”

“If you’re causing fitnah at school, it is better for you to leave the school.”

“Cover properly, so that you aren’t a trial for the guys!”

Such comments strike at the insecurities, religious aspirations, and self-esteem of our sisters in a way Islam never ever meant. This environment can only result in a few endings. One, a person will decide that she wants nothing to do with a practicing version of Islam and will leave practicing circles, deciding to strike her own path. Why would anyone want to be in a judgmental environment? Second, she may buy into this version of “Islam” and develop insecurities and issues that a natural, Prophetically-guided, scholarly approach to Islam would never allow.

In Islam, hijab is not demanded of women by men. Hijab and modesty is ordered upon women by the Merciful Ever-Living, Ever-Watchful God, as a protection and a barrier. A means of interacting in society while holding the line against anyone who would seek to harass, hit on, annoy, or irritate them. It is an outward symbol of an inward spiritual reality and aspiration. It is not a political flag for the Islamic state, it is not a sign of women’s subjugation to men, it is not a litmus test for religiosity, and it is not a measure of a woman’s piety, family background, or sign of her upbringing.

It is one act, a result of one of God’s commands. Everyone tries to obey Him, all of us fall short. As one of the `ulama (scholars) in Chicago once taught: “A person’s public sin is no worse than your private sin.”

The attitude that hijab and Islamic dress codes exist to protect men are an utter and total fallacy.  How do we know that? Let us approach the Book of Allah subhanahu wa ta`ala (exalted is He):

“O Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to bring down over themselves [part] of their outer garments. That is more suitable that they will be known and not be abused. And ever is Allah Forgiving and Merciful.” (Qur’an 33:59)

This verse comes with the cause or ‘illa behind the commandment: “so that they may be known and not abused.” Notice that the verse does not come with any mention of men. This is about the protection of women’s physical safety and presence from men, not the protection of men’s spiritual state from women. The fact that this protection may occur is a benefit of the Hijab for the community, not its purpose. From this, we can take four points that are critical to a healthy Islamic understanding of hijab.

  1. Hijab is not there to protect men. If you think it is there to protect you as a man, we have turned an act to be done for Allah (swt), into an act to be done for us. It is there to protect women, so do not pervert the purpose of this command of God (swt).  There is no doubt that we come across immodesty on TV, at school, work, and all over. We should not use the fact that a sister is dressed in a way that does not fit God’s commandments (or our personal interpretation of God’s commandments) into a reason for having bad manners, a lack of respect, and a lack of humility.

For brothers, we should lower our gazes and move on. We don’t need to comment about how this is such a fitnah or loudly say, “Astaghfirullah (I seek refuge in God),” so our boys can hear us and see how “pious” we are.

For sisters, if you want to advise someone about hijab, ask yourself, am I advising because it makes me feel pious? Or am I advising because I care about this person and want to be a good friend and sister in calling her towards the pleasure of Allah (swt)? Most of the sisters who decide to wear the hijab in adulthood don’t do it because someone yelled at them or taunted them. They do it because they were able to recognize its beauty after spending time with people who wore it with dignity and showed modesty not just in their clothing, but also in their character.

  1. Men should frame the issue of the fitnah of women in their environment as a factor of their own closeness to God. We know the society we live in and the schools we go to. That was never a surprise. Taqwa (God consciousness) is the key protecting us, so focus on that.

There are so many gender-relations talks and seminars in Muslim communities that it almost baffles the outsider. How can a group of people who claim to have the guidance and the path to Paradise laid out for them by the Best of Mankind ﷺ (peace be upon him), have trouble understanding the basics of how to interact with one another professionally and with respect?

The issue of struggling with the base desires, as mentioned in Imam al-Ghazali’s book, “Breaking the Two Desires,” is one that is closely tied to one’s relationship with God. The soul is something that was created by God, and in order to get it to grow and defeat the base desires of the body, it must be fed. As Shah Walilullah wrote, something that is created out of the spiritual world, cannot be fed with the material of the physical world. If we want to curtail the desires of our body (for sex, comfort, food), and increase the spiritual discipline and awareness of God in our own souls, the key is developing a relationship and connection to the Book of God, the houses of God, the people of God, and the remembrance of God. Complaining about how some women in our environment do not dress appropriately and so we are having spiritual struggles is a cop out.

As many of our spiritual masters have said over the centuries, the first step in gaining nearness to God, is to understand that one must blame his or her own soul, and acknowledge his or her own deficiencies, before seeking the One who is Free From Deficiencies. This is put into action through tawbah – turning towards God in repentance.

  1. Hijab is about the Fiqh (Law) for Women, not the Tazkiyyah (Spiritual Purification) of Men

We should make no mistake. The legal opinion of normative Islam, from the time of the Prophet ﷺ till today, is undivided in the view that women should cover their hair and dress modestly in the presence of non-familial men. The scholars are also undivided in the fact that you and I should not yell at our parents, swear at the weather, treat people harshly, drink alcohol, miss prayers, speak meanly to others, backbite, or judge other human beings without knowing their situations.

Muslim men should focus on their spirituality through good company, prayer, and all the other practices we are ordered to do, while allowing this to remain an issue’s of women’s fiqh (law), and not of men’s spirituality.

Because of the judgmental comments and harshness, and sometimes, sly, torpedo-in-the-water comments directed towards our sisters, many imams, da`ees (people who call others to Islam), teachers, and well-meaning advisors have trouble approaching the topic of hijab. Anyone even discussing it is often painted with the paintbrush that he is “judgmental.” This occurs even when the da`ee or teacher is doing so in the best of manners and with sound knowledge. This fault is on all involved of course – those of us responsible for spreading an environment of harshness, and those responsible for judging all religiously-oriented figures as being harsh and difficult to deal with.

The bad manners of some of us in “enjoining good” have made it impossible for our teachers and people of knowledge to enjoin it correctly, as people paint all of those who open their mouth on this and other issues with the same brush. This allows those who actually try to claim that the hijab is not a part of Islam to have their ignorance heard, while keeping the knowledgeable scholars from having their knowledge spread. 

  1. Men should advise the women of their family and encourage them on this topic in a way that befits the Prophetic character.

No one should take this to mean that hijab is not an important part of a Muslim’s woman’s obligations towards God. But that is the key. Towards God. Hijab should not become inflated as a symbol that boosts the religious standing of a woman’s family, nor a flag of political Islam, nor a tool to show off her piety, nor a cloth of guilt that makes her hate it.

It is instead, a command from God that comes in the most beautiful manner, for her own protection, her own elevation, and her own dignity.


As a closing note, we should remember that if we are doing something that is good, and are enabled to do it – we should not cast off that good deed just because we may have suddenly realized that our original intention was not solely for the sake of Allah (swt). Even if we are wearing the hijab, praying regularly, speaking well, giving charity, or doing any other good deed and originally began it with an intention that wasn’t healthy or focused on Allah (swt), we should not let Shaytaan (the Devil) trick us into ceasing the good deed. Instead, we can turn towards our Lord, ask him to purify our intention, and dedicate our deed towards Him.

This is a religion that is about community. As our Lord states in Surat al Hujurat (The Chapter of the Rooms, Qur’an 49), we are nothing but brothers and sisters to each other. We should advise each other towards good, but do it with a sound understanding of the legal basis of what we are calling to, as well as a sound understanding of the manners that befit our message.

 Abdul Sattar Ahmed

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10 Responses to "Hijab is Not to Protect Men, But to Honor Women"

i would love to say something here. What religion has a right to force women to have to hide be uncomfortable? That would make you feel so bad to have to hide because a man tells you have to.And if they don’t they get abused and acid thrown on them and stoned to death.And it say allh all forgiving not to his woman followers only his man one. How about the man wear one to. I think all about control in a male dominated society, I here they treat there woman lower then the dogs. It is like they have know freedom at all. This is so wrong should have the choice to decide if you want to wear it or not.I doubt allah is wrapping up in cloths and hiding himself. So yes we in the USA consider this a bad thing and are free to decide what we want to do. We show all of us daily we aren’t not forced to obey any man. I think they are treated so poorly I hope they all rebel and do what they want.When are they going to get out of the 1800’s and in 2014. How can they say greatest religion when they abuse there women. Been waiting all my life to say all this on here. I have a daughter to who has the right to decide how to live her life as she sees fit


Want don’t the justify this one


acid throwing and burning others can;t be justified..those who are doing this are doing wrong…they must be punished for hurting others.

i know…there are cases from Pakistan,Afghanistan but do you know there are such cases in usa and uk also,and done by every faith believers.

islam never says to do that…if a muslim is doing such things..its crime.


Peace be upon you my sister in humanity! As a Muslim woman reading your comment it is both funny and sad because it clearly shows how that the media has brainwashed you. so let’s go straight to the point you make. First you said: What religion has a right to force women to have to hide be uncomfortable? Well, it’s not from religion but from creator. It’s not man order but the one who created us. We cover our body to please our creator no one else. Second you said: And it say Allah all forgiving not to his woman followers only his man one. First of all which verses from the Quran said that Allah forgive not to his woman followers only man followers? In Islam there is absolutely no difference between men and women as far as their relationship to Allah is concerned, as both are promised the same reward for good conduct and the same punishment for evil conduct. The Quran says: “And for women are rights over men similar to those of men over women.” (Noble Quran 2:228)
“For Muslim men and women, for believing men and women, for devout men and women, for true men and women, for men and women who are patient and constant, for men and women who humble themselves, for men and women who give in charity, for men and women who fast, for men and women who guard their chastity, and for men and women who engage much in Allah’s praise, for them has Allah prepared forgiveness and great reward.” [Noble Quran 33:35]. This verses goes on and on. The third one you said that: they treat there woman lower then the dogs. I mean seriously come on, don’t you know that Allah has given the mother such status that “Paradise lies under the feet of mothers.”? Muslim women are treated like queens.
The fourth one you said: So yes we in the USA consider this a bad thing and are free to decide what we want to do. And who said that Muslim women are not free to decide what they want to do? I wear whatever I want, I study and do whatever I want to do. As Allah told us in the Quran we enjoy what’s good and we forbid what’s bad. isn’t that freedom?! And then you said: We show all of us daily we aren’t not forced to obey any man. we Muslims obey none but Allah. And then again you said: Been waiting all my life to say all this on here. to be honest you spend rest of your life regretting. why didn’t you asked this question before, to know facts about Islam?!
And the last one you said: I have a daughter to who has the right to decide how to live her life as she sees fit. Well I have the right to decide how I want to live my life too. If you really want to know the status of Muslim women go and speak to a Muslim women. Don’t believe what you read on the media!


//How can they say greatest religion when they abuse there women.//

how can you say ur are educated and modern when you can;t differentiate orders by religion and actions of followers ?


//I here they treat there woman lower then the dogs. //

i think you missed writing “donkey” in above line.

I agree that ,you must have heard this from islam haters,infact im sure they must have given proof also,by showing some sayings from hadith claiming that islam treat women less than dogs and donkey…

but fact ?


i already busted this lie…here…please read and findout .. if you still didn;t get then let me know…i will explain how they lied.

Islam says Women are like donkey and dogs :: Lie Busted !


Yes…there are many claims against women in islam…..

to know about women in islam,i don;t understand why people ask those who hate Islam..if you want to know about status of women in islam…then ask from muslim women.i know its hard for everyone to do this…so i did..

Read what more than 300 women says from different part of this world,about there status.

if you want to learn about physics,ask from physics professor,not from botany professor.

I Beg you,please read few cmnts in above link.

May ALlah swt make all these things useful for removing ur confusion,


jazak Allah great article,


Mashallah……………..Great Article……………Jazakallahkhair and keep up the goooood work!🙂 Salaam*


Thanks for this one hun – it makes a whole lot of sense to me now, because there has been so much in the media about the dress of Muslim women and how it makes them different without actually saying WHY!

There was a piece I read where a Saudi Imam said that pious women should only reveal one eye as otherwise the sight of her two beautiful eyes would force a man to rape them!!!

Dress should be about modesty and respect, not fear…

Love and hugs!



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