What Happens when you marry outside religion
Posted on: May 19, 2009
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I know few muslim girls converted to other religion just to marry a non-muslim guy.Few weaks before i found a msg of a girl living in UK (belongs to Pakistan).
I was shocked to see that girl left ISLAM for marrying other non-muslim.and What was the reason of doing all this.her family was going to fix marraige with her some cozn brother and the guy was haveing 2,3 affairs.she wished to be with the person who love only her.as she was believing that males from his society all most all male have 2,3 wifes.
and she was from pakistan middle class family,she was being forced to wear Hijab/Naqab and forced to marry the guy selected by parents.She thought that she will not be happy with the guy and will not have gud life with him.
later she married a non-muslim and left ISLAM.
I was confused for few minutes after reading,just for marraige or LOVE she left ISLAM.
She easily blamed the society and person fault on ISLAM.
Just for Love,you change your religion,Boys are available in muslim community too.then why to look at others.
I don’t know why those sisters forget that Love,good life , everything is given by Allah.If you want a good partner,have faith in Allah and Obey his messengers. You will get everything you want.A Muslim females are Real Pearl ,a Diamond. Do you want to be just stone ?
Please understand your importance and don’t blame the acts and errors or ur society peoples on ISLAM.You must follow the right path,so that we can proudly say ‘yes these are our sisters in Islam‘ from any part of world.
Below is a True Story of a sister who married a non-muslim…. read what she is saying !
Click On Picture to ZOOOOOM! I request sisters to leave a Msg for those sisters thinking to change religion …. Please write ur views in cmnts ! Brother and sisters are requested to share this Article with other sisters ! please !
I will publish one more TRUE story(in evening) of a Muslim Sister who left Islam just to marry a person,but now she is again back to ISLAM.
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27 Responses to "What Happens when you marry outside religion"
October 1, 2011 at 12:25 pm
MAY Allah help her ameen
brother please join http://guyanamuslims.org
was salllam
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April 10, 2010 at 8:49 pm
I have a question, I am not a muslim but my girl friend is, and I really really love her, I am willing to change my religion for her or even go against my own family, I guess they will forgive me for what i am doing . She was thinking of giving up her religion for me, truth be told, I dont mind her being muslim or me being muslim or anything at all . She is perfect , she’s my angel and I perhaps will do anything for her, Should i sacrifice so much and still not be able to be with her ? Where is justice in that ?
And please refrain from teaching me religion as I have observed and read about more religion than you will know . For I hold no ill will against any and if I die for anything I do bad, If I go to hell ,It’s fine for me, For I do believe in one thing Buddha said ” The person who lives in a continuous hell can never be harmed ” Im not a Buddhist , It’s just that I loved Buddha’s teaching .
So, I ask you , It is bad to marry in some other religion or respect some other religion ?
For me, I will keep her happy and always take all her sadness away . God supports me n I believe in him , and also , people are not answerable to god, to tell you the truth , If we are, then we should all go to hell , most of us , cause people are not good , most of us are not good people and we all have committed something or the other wrongs in our lives . I wish you will understand that .
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July 16, 2009 at 5:28 pm
Salamalikum….
First being a Muslim we all should think about Hereafter..We all have to face our Lord…And if some thing is forbidden by Allah SWT then there is some good benefit for us, who can understand us better then our Creator..?
We all have the Guide for us the Revelations of Allah to our beloved Last Prophet of Allah Quran, lets see what it say about marring a Non Muslim..
Al-Baqarah : 221 : And do not marry idolatresses till they believe. And indeed a Slave women who believes is better then a idolatress, even though she pleases you. And give not your daughters in marriage to idolaters, till they believe. And verily a believing Slave is better then a idolater, even though he pleases you. Those idolater invite you to the Fire, but Allah invites you to Paradise and Forgiveness by His leave, and makes His ayat clear to mankind that they may remember.
Every relation we have to live for the Happiness of Allah and if He is not pleased with that relation then what is the use of it..?
JazakAllah..
May Allah help all of us to live a life in the way He want us to live…Aamin
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June 27, 2009 at 2:21 pm
I see no reason why another religions tries to intervene in our religion. You should know that every religion has its own criteria and principles. It is prohibited in Islam for a Muslim woman to marry non-Muslim. It is clear and ALLAH will punish any person who wronged him in this world either or after dead. So for the non Muslims who are saying something otherwise should please keep your mouth shut. Mind your religion and others. ALLAH knows best of all and is He who imposed it to us to do as he wish and by His grace we will follow.
This article published is just showing us some signs of defects when a Muslim woman married a non Muslim. ALLAH knows what has happened and what will happen. he knew all this kind of bullshits will occur in this type of marriage that’s why he forbidden us from such type of marriage.
For all those Muslim women who are planning or thinking of marrying a non- Muslim should think twise. They should remember ALLAH and his punishment for violating his law.
ALLAH knows best..
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June 18, 2009 at 6:26 am
Bismillahirrahmanirraheem
Assalam Alaikum,
Please know that Allah is our Creator, Sustainer and He knows whats best for us. Here is what Allah Sub’hanahu Wa Ta ‘Ala says in Holy Qur’an:
2:221 And do not marry Al-Mushrikât (idolatresses, etc.) till they believe (worship Allâh Alone). And indeed a slave woman who believes is better than a (free) Mushrikah (idolatress, etc.), even though she pleases you. And give not (your daughters) in marriage to Al-Mushrikûn till they believe (in Allâh Alone) and verily, a believing slave is better than a (free) Mushrik (idolater, etc.), even though he pleases you. Those (Al-Mushrikûn) invite you to the Fire, but Allâh invites (you) to Paradise and Forgiveness by His Leave, and makes His Ayât (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) clear to mankind that they may remember.
5:005 Made lawful to you this day are AtTayyibât [all kinds of Halâl (lawful) foods, which Allâh has made lawful (meat of slaughtered eatable animals, etc., milk products, fats, vegetables and fruits, etc.). The food (slaughtered cattle, eatable animals, etc.) of the people of the Scripture (Jews and Christians) is lawful to you and yours is lawful to them. (Lawful to you in marriage) are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before your time, when you have given their due Mahr (bridal money given by the husband to his wife at the time of marriage), desiring chastity (i.e. taking them in legal wedlock) not committing illegal sexual intercourse, nor taking them as girl-friends. And whosoever disbelieves in the Oneness of Allâh and in all the other Articles of Faith [i.e. His (Allâh’s), Angels, His Holy Books, His Messengers, the Day of Resurrection and AlQadar (Divine Preordainments)], then fruitless is his work, and in the Hereafter he will be among the losers.
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June 11, 2009 at 10:52 am
I think that it’s absolutely ridiculous that a letter that was published in 1977 is used as evidence for what Muslim girls are going through today. There are a great number of non-Muslims that covert to Islam and this seems to be forgotten. One woman’s bad experience cannot be used as an example of what happens if you marry a non-Muslim. My parents are from different religions and I have been bought up to respect both of them. Secondly, the belief that you should listen to your parents no matter what is simply absurd. The person who posted this article seems to suggest that the Pakistani girl should have gone ahead with her parents choice. There are many ideas practised by Muslims that are not necessarily Islamic and therefore I would like to know where in Islam that it says that it is ok for a parent to force their child to marry someone? If you have grown with the idea of Islam being repressive then you are going to look for any opportunity to leave the religion. Thirdly, it is not necessarily the case that if a Muslim woman marries a non-Muslim that she will be treated badly and that her religion will come under attack. Furthermore, what about the other way around? Does anyone presume that if a Muslim man marries a non-Muslim that he will insult her religion and treat her badly? Or are we now saying that all Muslim man are good and non-Muslim men are bad? A respectful non-Muslim man will know how to treat a Muslim woman. There is no gurantee that if you marry a Muslim man that treat you in a way that is both respectful and Islamic.
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June 10, 2009 at 5:14 am
Salam alaikum Brothers & sisters
Here is the key if a muslim girl/woman start seeing a nonmuslim man and intend to married: ask the man to learn about Islam and tell him that you can only marry a muslim man”. If that doesn’t work, that’s it, good by farewell.
I don’t care iven if in my age I’m still single & virgin, I live everything to Allah. I run my life in Islamic rules.
And for the Muslim men all over the world, change your culture of marrying more than one woman even though Islam allow you to marry 4 woman at once, except for certain reasons, be faith to your only wive, cause actually you can not be abble to do equal thing to your wive.
Wassalam
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June 6, 2009 at 7:05 am
its really very bad habbit leave islam, if she thinks like that the love is the most important by leaving islam and marrying non-muslim.this prohibited think,god knows about this and after her death she will dye very bad way like prophet mohaamed brother “abulahab”.he never belives islam ,he hate hies brother prophet muhammed and what happen to him.god allah make abulahab sick. its very bad sick. and he was barried very badly too. no one touch him because his skin was damage and a lot of disease was in his body.and water to drink him people push water in to his face.told that pakistan girl that she gave sacrifise for her love by changing islam and she did a very big mistake she will have to give a punishement espicially her parents too.
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October 9, 2011 at 3:36 am
ASALAM MUALLAHIKUM Bro n Sis why everyone againts pakistan girl n she marry wit non muslim, wat my thinking is let her go 2 hell , wat ever God will punish her, n God punish her is not going to u wat those ppls problem, u did not hear or see Imam change kristen wat about that ??????? Imam know about rolled muslim……
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May 27, 2009 at 1:16 am
THAT’S BULLSHIT…….
FROM MY UNDERSTANDING THE LADY WHO WROTE THIS JUST HAD A BAD EXPERIENCES. Y0U SH0ULD BE ABLE TO MARRY ANY RACE OF ANY KIND IF YOU WANT TO. THAT MEANS RELIGION IS RUNNING YOUR LIFE..
THAT IS JUST PLAIN OL NON-SENCE OF WHAT THE OTHER COMMENTS SAY…IT’S BULL CRAP…I AM 18 AND I HAVE DATED ALL KINDS OF GUYS..BLACK,WHITE,MIX,MEXICAN,HAITIAN,AND IN FACT AM DATING A MUSLIM NOW..WE ARE HAPPY AND ARE TALKING ABOUT MARRING EACH OTHER..WE STAY WITH EACH OTHER…AND THAT IS BULLSHIT WHAT EVERYBODY IS SAYING I CAN DATE ANYONE I CAN…THAT WAS JUST THAT ONE MEN…AND SOME MUSLIM MEN ARE DIRTY AND FILTHY TO…THAT WAS JUST THAT ONE MEN MUSLIM MEN ARE NOT THE CLEANEST MEN THERE DIRTY IN MY EYES {SOME ARE}. DATE OTHERS LADY HE ISN’T THE ONLY MEN OUT HERE AND THAT’S REAL CRAZY AND STUPID IF U HAVE TO ONLY DATE YOUR RELIGION……..
I AM BLACK AND I DATE A MUSLIM…..AND I LOVE HIM AND HE LOVES ME AND WE BOTH UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER RELIGION…I’M CHRISTIAN AND WE WILL RAISE OUR KIDS TO UNDERSTAND BOTH RELIGIONS TOGETHER AND LET THEM DECIDES WHICH ONE THEY WANT TO BELIEVE IN
DON’T LET MUSLIMS RUIN YOUR LIFE PEOPLE
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May 24, 2009 at 7:23 pm
Muslims should understand the reosons to why they were born in Islam, what it means, everything, people don’t just say stuff because they’re crazy especially not muslim ones, listen to your parents , as they are more experienced and are a part of you. Remember you are a half of each parent. And your Lord loves you more than 70 mothers. Do you know how much that is. You wouldn’t be existing if it was false. How can you refuse such love and seek something that lasts for only a moment. He has send signs of his existance everywhere you only have to look.
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May 21, 2009 at 11:19 am
Bismillah
Assalaam Alaikum
I agree that leaving Islam for something of this dunia is so silly but I also think that the parents have some blame in this situation because they tried to force things on their daughter, which only made her hate them – there is no compulsion in religion, people! Marrying a daughter off is haram anyway as the bride must consent to the marriage for it to be valid under shari’ah.
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May 21, 2009 at 5:58 am
King Slave of Allah i love ur comment, cause u have explain everything….. also we muslim, we should think b 4 doin things,let act like a muslims brothers and sisters…………………………
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May 20, 2009 at 3:15 pm
d Holy Prophet (PBUH) seda a muslim woman is nt allowed 2 marry a non muslim bt a muslim man can marry non muslim cos d husbands hav rite on d childrens nt d wifes.salam
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May 20, 2009 at 11:22 am
i feel so sorry 4 d sister but d deed has already been done.
d post is interesting, i hope it will encourage more sisters, becos dis post as inspire me a lot. Ma-salam
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May 19, 2009 at 9:11 pm
wat hapens if u mary a non-muslim without changing ur religion and evrythng wrks out fyn in marriage?
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May 19, 2009 at 10:29 pm
hmm,don’t worry sister,i’m about to publish a another real story of girl who didn’t converted to other religion but married a non-muslim.
but i want to ask one thing.Will you be happy to see ur husband in HELL ? What will be the name of childrens ?
Which religion they will follow ? may be one will not worship Allah and one will worship Allah.one will go hell,one will go heaven. Will you be happy ?
What kind of faith she will have in Allah and prophet.Will sisters be happy when peoples will insult prophet in front of her.
sisters haveing such thinking must know that this step will hurt her and her childrens too.entire generation will loose beauty of Islam.
and Why thinking to be with Non-Muslims,Muslim guys are also available !
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October 9, 2011 at 3:49 am
Guys muslim are available ya sure, mostly muslim mans is cheater to wife n marry 5 wifes do u think is good 4 wife it’s bullshed
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May 19, 2009 at 10:56 pm
and the most imp thing,if she believes in Allah,then she will never take such step.and most important thing.
The Marriage between Muslim girl and Non-Muslim guy is not Valid.so she will not be as Wife and it will be Illegal relationship just like doing ZINA…..and even there children also HARAM.
I know,few sister may be happy but this happyness is not from Allah,its from Satan.He will try to make her happy,she must be haveing gud money,big home,cars,children,husband treating her in gud way. etc etc…… after all he(satan) is using her to miss guide other sisters….
is haveing money,big home,cars are the happyness in peoples life ??????
think about this….
May Allah guide sisters on right path!
Ameen!
KING
slave of Allah!
if i'm wrong at any place,pls correct me !
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May 19, 2009 at 4:52 pm
ya Allah she has done a great mistake,may Allah guide our muslim women and men AMEEN.
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May 19, 2009 at 8:28 am
if u truly understand what islam is all about u ll never leave d religion 4 anything.what our ladies need is full understanding about the religion wic i believe will help them
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May 19, 2009 at 8:25 am
Salam,
May Almighty Allah Help Us All and show us the right path.
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May 19, 2009 at 5:58 am
Y didn’t she divorce the man as she saw his bad works after honeymoon?
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Oh Allah,Please Forgive me
Ex-Christians-Now Muslim,Alhamdulillah
I Love My Prophet Muhammad s.a.w
ISLAM---World's Greatest Religion! 
March 3, 2012 at 5:10 am
I court a muslim women I try to ask some question on her and try to understand her religion……and im happy to be with her so should i stop court her because of her religiom??
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